Welcome to the inaugural post of The Dressed Aesthetic, a vintage styleĀ blog where I plan toĀ cover wardrobe planning and daily outfit adventures, vintage shopping and modernization styling tips, my designing and sewing undertakings, and life as a marine biologist. To answer your first question: Yes, I wear a dress to the lab pretty much every single day.
So, why did I carve out a corner of the internet?
This blog has probably been brewing for many years. The first inkling came when someone askedĀ me if I was āsure I was a scientist,ā as they gawked at my floral vintage dress (cause apparently scientists arenāt supposed to be feminine).Ā “Yep.” I said, brow furrowed. “Pretty sure.”
And it got me thinking – how many of us are out there self-censoring ourselves because of what we’re “supposed” to be wearing to fit within the confines of the stereotypes that come with ourĀ profession/relationship/circle of friends/gender identity/fill-in-the-blank?
When weāre little girls, I think weāre sent a constant, quiet message ā that we can either be pretty or smart. I think that when I was young I accepted my path as the āsmart girlā. My first love was (and still is) science and it took me a very long time for the confidence I had in myself catch up to the confidence I had in my career. And truthfully, Iām not sure when the change happened. I used to walk past shop windows and see a beautiful dress and, like many of us, walk away thinking āI have nowhere to wear that.ā Iād succumb to the notion that there was clothing I would wear only when I lost 5 pounds, focus on the parts of me that I thought were imperfect, and listened the subtle message that, to succeed in science, I would need to defer to a more masculine identity.

Then one day I wore a pretty dress. I bought the sparkly heels and then MADE an event to wear them to. And the rhinestone necklace that was sitting in my drawer collecting dust because I was āsaving it for a special occasionā ā I wore it on a Tuesday. And then I did it the next day. Not only did it make me happy, it made me BETTER. I felt more powerful and more myself in a dressĀ and heels than I ever had in jeans. I had more confidence, created more opportunities for myself, and walked into rooms looking people in the eye.
So, I started this blog to give a voice to all of the fashionable nerds out there. To acknowledge that we can be pretty AND smart and anything else we want to be. To knock back some of the gendered stereotypes that exist in science (and every workplace)….and share a whole lot of beautiful vintage.



So, here goes. The daily adventures of a professional vintage huntress, arbiter of good coffee, and total science nerd.
The Pretty AND Smart Revolution. Who’s with me?!
xoxo

